friendship

Many people wonder about the friendship and importance, some say that true friendship in the process of disappearing in the era of Palmadiat and different pressures, and others are wondering about how to establish a close friendship in time become difficult to find a sincere friend, and how to distinguish between genuine friendship and benefit Friendship . The psychologists, and the meeting that the people of modern societies are in dire need to establish a friendship on emotion and sincere reconciliation and convergence of views and concerns. And avoid the fragile relations are governed by mutual interests or the interests of one party. Says American psychologist Eugene Kennedy, said that many of us need from time to time to a person who can tell his story in detail of their lives without feeling embarrassed and need to trust the person not ashamed to discuss their own affairs and more precise with their own problems with him. The American doctor that it was wrong to surrender to the idea of ​​the absence of genuine friendship or scarce on the way to the demise of the person to make serious attempts to establish a friendship on a sound basis. But how do we create the conditions for the establishment of friendship and to ensure its continuation? The first foundation of friendship is that the person be honest with himself and with others, and able to understand the aspects and dimensions of his personality and reducing the negative aspects, if any; People who are unable to understand themselves, and accept those shortcomings, they can not establish good friendships with others. As for how to distinguish between genuine friendship and the friendship of utility, Dr transatlantic relations. Kennedy that there are people we happy times with them while going out to a picnic or practice sports or a particular activity together, and upon expiration or cruise the demise of the reason for participating companionship become possible, it is difficult through the exchange of of ideas or a personal dialogue .. So these people can not be considered for the benefit of certain friends. It is a true friend? I know that the true friend who remains close to the self, despite the many concerns of the parties, so you see them next to you, times of adversity the physical, social, even if different point of view of friendly countries in case of public or political doctrine .. Many believe that the young is the best stage in life for the establishment of genuine friendships, and the Association of Friends of the past are usually stronger than the new friends, and psychologists contend that the ability to establish friendships and strength do not support the person's age or length of friendship and young people, but usually they call rein to their feelings and emotions can be easily to others, thus facilitating the process of establishing friendships. Some people may prefer to avoid friendship for fear of the problems of failure and having to face the pain and sense of disappointment, or the belief that friendship Full impossible .. and such persons to impose on themselves voluntary isolation, they refuse to pay a price for the Association of Humanity do not know their real value and great significance in humans.